My desperate cry for help

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I am a Chasidic Jew who grew up in a Chasidic community in greater New York, in a very well respected family.

In my childhood and teenage years I was sexually molested many times and by multiple people. However, My letter here is not about getting even with anyone.

I am writing this letter because the things that were done to me had a terrible impact on me. Since I had no one to talk to or to help me when I was a kid, I had to keep it all in me and suffer in silence. Unfortunately this has adversely affected me in more ways than one.

Today I am bh a father of beautiful children and a husband to my beloved and dedicated wife. I am blessed to have an amazing family, but the abuse that I suffered in my youth is threatening to destroy it all.

Over the past six years I have spent thousands of dollars on therapy and other self-help programs. I have worked hard and made a lot of progress. At this point, the only way for me to really break out of my past trauma, is to go away to a trauma rehab center. This will help me recover and become a healthy husband and father.

The price for the two month program is a staggering $90,000. Yes, you read it right, $90,000. With the help of Hashem I was able to raise some money from my family and close friends. I need to reach the goal asap in order to get in to rehab. I am now left with only one option: to turn to you, my Jewish brethren to help me raise the remaining money within the next 24 hours so I can get the help I so desperately need.

Please help me heal and recover, so I can give my children that which I never received.

May Hashem bless you that you should know only good all your days.

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